The "Lonely" Crowd

Crowd, when we hear this word what is the first thing that comes in to the mind?
For me it is something big, which might be stronger and powerful. Isn't it?
But if I say, every single individual in the crowd is lonely, then will that make a sense, calling it a crowd. I know the answer will be No. Which is obvious. Now the question arise, why is this happening?
Human has advanced a lot with the science and technology, and I have heard that Science and technology is there to improve our way of living. What do you think, is the way if living really improved now a days?
I can see a lot of electronic gadgets and apps to connect with people now a days which were not there few years back, but why is that the crowd of lonely people is increasing day by day?

It is that the technology has stated taken over us and we are not aware about it. People are so much into getting likes and comments in social network that they have totally forgotten what a real conversation means. This is the reason people are going in to depression, committing suicide etc.
I mean that is really something wrong going on, as we can clearly see there is no short of people around us, ah if I rephrase it, the entire world is over populated and still we do not have a single person to listen to us. Is that not a serious issue that is happening around us?

Every person in some way or the other is fighting with some thoughts deep inside and is looking for someone, whom we could share our feelings and can fell better. Unfortunately we keep searching and get another reason to make our self more depressed not finding a single person with whom we can share it.

Every moment we meet new people and make new friends, if not that we have our siblings and relatives. If I start counting a long list will fall shot but WHERE ARE THEY?
Every one is either into themselves or are happy seeing others suffering. Which demotivates us more to share our ongoing feelings to any one, in a fear of making our own joke in front of all.

So now the big question that arise is, What shall we do, to come out out of this?
There might be a number of ways that might work, if you go and ask to a Psychiatrist.
But I have something that would surely work to bring out yourself out from this serious situation.

Firstly, You should realize that this is all about time and the good and bad thing about time is that, It is never constant, It changes. So be thankful to what you have, thankful that you are still breathing, that means  god has given you chance to get up and try to make your situation better. This will keep you grounded and will remind you that you are a human and you have a purpose and you need to fulfill it, doesn't matter if you know about your purpose or not, as that will eventually come to you some day.

Tips: You can search for a extraordinary stone, which is of course small in size, so that you can carry it around and name that stone "Thank you stone" or "Gratitude Stone". Every time you touch that stone, take a few second break and start thanking to the universe for all that you have with you currently. That may be family, friends, a house or a delicious meal etc.

Secondly, Start making a habit of writing your feelings somewhere, like a diary or a blog in the internet (its on you if you wish to publish it or not). This will help flow out the frustration and loneliness within you and will make you relaxed. You can also get a pet ( Dog, cat etc), always choose the pets who can be set free (not like fish, a bird etc), that will give you a beautiful company and will not judge you at all. Eventually you will notice that, you will be sharing all your feelings with the pet you have and will feel relaxed.

Thirdly, keep looking for someone around you, with good intellect and maturity and make friend. So that when the time comes you can consult him/her about your thoughts and can get help. Here if you do not get anyone, which is really tough to find in today's time, then you can go to a  Psychiatrist, who can advise you and help you professionally.




What has happened cannot be reversed, I would say, it a matter of Luck if you get someone who shows interests listening to you without any returns. Keep channeling out your feelings in any way you wish to so that you can remain calm and cool. This is a new world, if you do not learn the skill of standing alone and fighting then time will make you drown.
When ever you get a chance help the needy once, that will give you energy and will motivate you in your path. Life is Fighting, when you stop Fighting, your Life ends. Fight the situation and the time will pass and will bring a new working when you can celebrate your Victory.