Conundrum of Life: "Love"

"Love" is considered to be as the deepest and purest feeling one encounters in ones life. It not less than any magic or miracle after which we start loving our life and intend to lost ourselves in it. I have been thinking about writing about this topic for a while now and was not able to figure out where to start, as this is as simple as complicated topic. But last night while I was watching to an amazing love story movie, I somewhere understood where to start and what to write.

After diving into this deep topic I could figure out one thing and that is Love is inversely proportional to "Time" now a days. The more time you have the less Love you get and the less time you have, people start pouring love to you unconditionally.

Now what is the kind of Love that is prevailing in today's time?
Is that even Love or something else?
We often hear people saying Mother's Love is Pure Love.

I Agree to that but what about the love we are getting from different sources, is that all fake?
I would not completely agree to that, as there are some remarkably beautiful human beings and animals who set an tremendous example in today's time as well and make us realize how beautiful life can be with unconditional Love and affection.

Now what I have understood so far after getting into a lot of relationships and heart breaks and finally getting life time hooked up with a beautiful girl is that, Love is like a fuel to your Vehicle of Life,
You cannot fill the fuel more than the capacity of the fuel tank and even if you do you will end up loosing your wealth and it will worth nothing.
It is very necessary to fill the fuel time to time or else the Vehicle of life might stop at one point. Till there is enough fuel(Love) in the tank you will have no difficulty in your Vehicle of Life irrespective to any weather conditions (Difficulties). This is the fact that everybody is aware of.

The thing that all know deep down but don't realize is that "Expectation" is the only thing that dilutes the Love. Even in ancient literature like "Bhagbat Gita" it is written, the only reason of depression in living beings comes from Expectation.

Now if you go back to Mother's Love and the reason that, how is it so pure and divine?, the answer will be because they don't have much Expectations from you with exchange of their Love except one thing that is "Time". Their Love will remain the same irrespective to any situation, status and circumstances you are in, It hardly changes. The one thing that anyone would expect if he/she is in true love with someone is to spend some time with that person. Time is the one and only basic requirement of Love. Isn't it?

However with the advancement of science and technology today's generation has no time to stop a bit and to think about all these as every thing is now calculated in terms of money. You might have heard a common yet meaningful phrase "Time is Money", which is absolutely true but this Money has made the humans totally forget another lost yet meaningful phrase "Time is Love". This the phrase which I guess all living being in the world follow except humans as they have completely replaced Love with Money. It's an ugly fact in today's time. Which is getting uglier as the days passes.

In today's time you have to be calculative in terms of sharing your time to maintain the love and affection in someone's  eye. The more time you spend with someone the love between you kind of fades at some point of time. So in today's time it is really necessary to be calculative in terms of sharing your time in order to maintain a healthy relationship. This is necessary because, in this world which is surrounded by social media and all, people are more interested in getting the Digital Likes rather than getting literally Liked by someone. The fun fact here is I would also expect a like on my blog if you feel some connection with what I am sharing. Ha ha .. With advancement of technology there is no doubt we should get advanced, but you cannot get advanced leaving behind your moral principles, Isn't it?

Now coming back to what I mentioned in the beginning, Love is inversely proportional to "Time"
The few quality time you spend with your loved ones is often cherished. This is sad but true now a days. Unless people know that you have less time left in this world they won't think about sharing their valuable time with you no matter what. Humans have become so confident about their existence tomorrow that they take everything for granted even the Time. People are so confident about tomorrow that they blindly focus on making money and securing the future so that they could spend their time with their loved ones then but unknowingly overlook the fact that the time which they have it now for real is passing which is completely under their control. Is it really necessary to completely focus on making the future ignoring the present where you have complete control and assurance of occurrence. 

People who live for today and only Today are often seen and found to be most happiest ones. We can share some time with all the people we know if not daily then might be weekly or monthly at least to make them feel that there is someone at some corner in the world who still remembers you and you matter to them. This will make a great change in every one's life. People will not feel alone hence forth and the so called loneliness will not take innocent lives, people will not commit suicide, reduce heart break and heart attacks. Isn't it so?

 So Love is a magic and it needs to happen every day, every moment in life irrespective to the amount of time we have left. I guess animals like Dogs understand this thing better than humans that is why they are known to be the best pets of all as they only deal with Love irrespective of time. We should promise ourselves that we will take some time to remember the people who we know and the one who have at least contributed something in our lives or have created a beautiful memory at least for a moment in our lives. Just a call to say "Hi, How are you doing?" will make a great change and will bring back your old memories which will be refreshed and will bring a smile to your face and life.

What do you thing?

If you feel the same or have anything to add to the thoughts that I have shared then please feel free to comment and let me know. I would love to know about your thoughts as well.