Whom should you TRUST?

Whom should you TRUST?

Trust is not just a word, but it is an silent emotional expression of someone which becomes a strength when we find ourselves alone. It is obvious that trust is not a thing which can be build in a day or two, or it can be gained verbally. This is a continuous process which has no definite time to establish. 

The more honest you are the more trust you gain,

Now here you might think, Trust is directly proportional to Honesty. That might not be true every time as, a completely honest person can never be trusted. Because if a person is honest to very one and if someone shares a secret then it is obvious that that will no longer be a secret in his hands. 

So here we all are in search for a person or a leaving being whom we can trust blindly, so that we can share our deepest thoughts and secrets with them and can release the burden of the thoughts that we carry in our day to day life. That is the only reason some get into relationships, some get a pet (Dog), some act really smart and choose to stay alone.

These are the three basic types, Now the question which arise here is, How do we know we fall under which type?

I am no professional but life has taught me something which is enough to understand and make you understand which category you fall and also from those three category which is the best option.

Some peoples have stayed alone most of their life and at some point of time they cannot resist the loneliness and they start searching for someone with whom they can share their thoughts and discuss, which make them relaxed and motivated for the rest of the life, that there is someone in the world who is their to listen to HIM/HER. 

There are also some people who are very self dependent and fight with the external thoughts by their own and when it comes to internal thoughts they just want to share them with no expectation of any suggestions or solutions. Those are the person who get a pet, such as DOG or CAT, with whom they can talk whole day and share their thoughts and feel very relaxed as a Dog has nothing to do with your secrets and thoughts till he is getting his food and time from his owner.

Now comes the third category, which is my favorite, the people who try and learn the skill to talk to themselves and find the solution themselves, and stay cheerful all the time as they are the ones who have the best companion among the three categories.

   

Why because, a human cannot be completely honest and trust worth to one in his/her entire life as because they carry brains and can easily get biased it any material is kept informant of them. Human has known for his/her selfishness and now or then that will come up and then eventually everything will fall apart and will rise up to the third category.

Something similar happens with the second category as well, there you find a pet (Dog) who is and will be completely loyal and trustworthy his whole life no matter what but unfortunately god has only given then 10-14 yrs which will  then leave you alone. which will again bring you to the third category.

This is not so hard to believe in yourself and becoming your own best friend. The thing is some come to this stage after getting several betrayals, some after heartbreak and some simply by analyzing the situation around.

I myself have learnt and am learning, how to be your own best partner and become self dependent. There is a saying "Person walking alone in life is the strongest person", as he has nobody to fear for, nobody who can cheat him, nobody can betray him, not depending on anyone to stay happy.

That is the reason, the people who have understood the life in deep, have always remained single, some turn themselves to monks and some just focus on their passion and eventually die smiling.

So I would suggest you to start separating yourself from crowd and start learning the ability of  being your own best friend who will remain there with your  till your death no matter what.

Those who are very lucky and fortunate enough to get a partner or friend who can stand along side you no matter what are very fortunate ones and please be there and take care of them. They should show their gratitude to the universe and to your loved ones for being there for them.

Still if each one of us learn to heal ourselves and be our own best friends then there will be no any selfishness or betrayal in friendship or relationships.

""If you are happy and self sufficient staying alone then be it a crowd or lonely hall you will deal with it""

AS SIMPLE AS THAT....

Purpose of "LIFE"

I am sure at least for once you might have come across this wonderful yet meaningful question in your life. Now I have been wondering is this just another question, or something else more deep and meaningful. 

Does anybody has understood the real purpose of Life and has achieved it? Yes, of course there are many great souls who have achieved it.

Here I am talking about a much bigger picture which is way bigger from any Door or Boundaries, way bigger than our religions and Nationality. You might have already started thinking what is he taking?

Ha ha.. 

It really seems way important to me than any other thing. Let me make this simple so that you can connect easily to what I want to say,

Don't you think among all leaving creatures in this world why we humans have got the intellect to improve ourselves and grow?

They say,"With bigger power, comes bigger responsibility."

Now we all have got the power and we have unfortunately misunderstood out responsibilities.

There should be just one responsibility humans should have, that is making this world a better place.

But fortunately we have discovered Science and have got totally relaid on it, thinking that will make our world a better place. But it turned out to be beneficial for Humans as it provided all the Luxury and comfort human had ever thought for and started killing the Earth.

We have become so greedy that even though the land underneath out foot and house is destroying we are still exploiting the Earth for more Luxury and Comfort which we can store in our house.

There was a prime motive Humans were gifted with brain, so that they could guide other creature and make this world more beautiful place.

But we humans have made it a living HELL.

Humans killing Humans, Humans killing other leaving creature, Humans killing the Nature, Humans killing the Earth.

I have heard people saying if we do good, we will get place in "HEAVEN". Now my question is, what if this beautiful Earth is a Heaven and we all Humans are trying our best to make this beautiful Heaven, a living HELL.

It is high time we humans should stop enjoying the Luxury, which eventually costs the Nature and the Earth a lot.

Our own selfish Luxury space is knowingly and unknowingly killing the living space of other living creatures.

Who are we, without the Nature and the beautiful leaving creatures around us?

So, build a purpose which will make this Earth a beautiful place.
It is time to stop acting like selfish beings and start repaying the loans that we have taken from the Mother Nature and behave like Human beings.

The "CROWDED" empty streets

As the Lock Down days are passing, every morning when I wake up I inculcate a new learning or a new way to see the situation we are all in. Then I wonder, Is it that bad?

No it's not, well of course the  economy is getting worse day by day due to lock down and many factories, shops and work stations have completely stopped for the time being. But is it really that bad?

If we step back a bit and try to look the bigger picture, we can clearly see that our surrounding  and climate has improved a lot and is still improving, also the Ozone layer is healing itself. Isn't it what we all were trying to do for so long. Now a small invisible virus has shown us the solution.

Now a days the streets, which were filled with peoples are empty. Today when I looked outside the window I realized something, that we humans have taken over the place that belongs to all the leaving creature and made it our place to fulfill our own selfish desires. 

Have we ever thought the forest we are cutting and the ponds we are filling belongs to someone, who cannot even claim their places. 

This invisible Virus is CROWDED all over the place and the lonely streets which we have forcefully claimed ours, forgetting and ignoring the fact that there are other Nature's creation who have equal right to share this beautiful place. 

As we have entered to their radar and their space, 

This virus is now reclaiming their rightful space back and has entered to the streets and has put us locked down in our home. Isn't it "KARMA" that is playing?

If we try to understand, there is a very simple message this situation is trying to convey to the Humans, that we should all accept the fact that we have done a number of miserable things to our surrounding and the Nature. For which this virus has come up to warn us and make us realize of our selfish deeds. If we understand, we can make a far better and beautiful world than science and technology can offer us.

"Human Intelligence" has let this Nature down and will one day surely be the only reason of it's own nonexistence if we do not take this silent message seriously. 

There are many things to fix around us, but we only talk, debate and forget about it, "a single person cannot make a difference until each one of us undergo a deep self-realization and act on it. "

I can only say, "a little bit of selfless humanity, this world needs to make it a better place."

"Two" Faces of Mother Nature

We are all undergoing a Lock down phase due to the deadly "CORONA" virus, that has spread all over the globe, Now I wonder, Is it true that Mother Nature has turned cruel on "so called HUMANS" or is it just creating an example to make humans realize that all living beings are a part of nature and should get their rightful place in order to create a balance?

We all are very much aware about the fact that, since the Advancement of Science and Technology has taken place we have continuously exploited the Nature and other living beings over and over.We are killing them for food and shelter,

Now this is the question that we should ask ourselves, Do we at least remember our core values and responsibility towards the Mother Nature, which is the base of our existence?

Advancement of Science and Technology has made us all blind. What have we given to the nature?

Okay I can accept the fact that, this is a circle of life and this is how it functions. One life killing other for necessity like food and shelter.

But what about the luxury part we are trying to experience by taking the life of other living beings. Do they not have the right to leave and die getting old, like we humans expect.

Who has given us the filthy right to take decisions for other living creatures in this world?

They deserve equal space and freedom as we humans do, don't they?

You will surely find this answer by yourself by the end of this Lock Down, we humans cannot able to resist locked up at one place for some days and we forcefully keep other living creatures in a cage and convince ourselves that everything is fine.

I hope you all might have heard that Lock down has shown us unexpected things in these couple of days. Animals coming into the streets and roaming around, Dolphins have shown up at many coasts and Swans have shown up in many canals at many parts of the world. Is this not how we should live along with other living beings, creating a beautiful example, so that Mother Nature should smile at us. Coming back to the Virus that has created a chaos in humans around the globe. Don't you feel this Virus is a just response to what we all have done to the Nature and the selfless creatures around us for our own selfish desires. This might be just the beginning of what is coming, unless we self realize and change our behavior towards the Nature and start living as a part of Nature without challenging it.

Or else "Time will come when we human will be the only reason of our non existence in this beautiful world." If we could conduct "a week" of "lock down" every year in this entire world, then things will surely turn up and we can at least give our children a better planet to leave in with other living beings around.

We have started this and we are the ones who can change this and make this globe a better place to leave. A small invisible VIRUS is trying to teach "HUMANITY" to "HUMANS", Just think about it. Please LIKE and SHARE if you AGREE and do COMMENT and let me know, WHAT DO YOU THINK?

By SOMIT DAS

"VIRUS" Fighting "Virus"

"VIRUS" when we hear this word the first thing that comes in our mind is danger. Now I am not denying the fact that virus has always affected us in a negative way unless it is not WE who have created it.

In today's time humans have advanced in Science and Technology so much that they hold the power to challenge the Nature at some point of time. With the advancement of Science and Technology humans have forgotten the fact that we are just a part of Nature's creation.  Now the reason I am sharing this is because it is high time now where we should understand the reason of our existence. Now the entire world is fighting to survive this Virus named "CORONA". We have locked up ourselves to escape from this. Almost entire Globe is locked down and people are still confused why this is happening to them forgetting the fact "They are the real virus the Nature is worried about, still the Mother Nature is resisting and has yet not wiped out the human race from the globe.

We are the species who have turned into an uncured VIRUS and have been exploiting the nature and other living beings for our own selfish desires over and over. "Science" which once up on a time gave us EYES to look the world in a different way has now turned us BLIND. We cannot see or don't want to see the poison that we are spreading in the nature in form of deforestation, pollution, Animal killing and exploitation etc.

Have we ever thought, that are we still humans?, or have turned ourselves into a uncured Poisonous Virus which is continuously killing the  Nature.  It is high time we should consider this "Lock down" as a "Count down" the Mother Nature has started on the Human race, This is the time we should sit back and realize about the harm we have done to the Nature and start correcting them or else it will not take a blink for the Nature to wipe out the entire human race from the map.

"Corona is not as harmful Virus as we humans are, to the Nature". If we don't stop ourselves NOW, It will be very late to stop the Nature responding to our deeds. 

I am nobody but at least I have realized this, which makes me somebody that can pass this message to those who are still sleeping, so that we can come  together and make this Globe a better place..

By SOMIT DAS